Once a man has ejaculated his interest in sex, and possibly his partner, declines rapidly. His penis will shrink and his sex drive diminishes. For a period of time, depending mainly on his age and health, he can’t achieve another erection and so his interest in sex is reduced. For many men, the penis becomes [...]

• Making love with one’s partner. • Making love with a former lover or someone other than one’s partner. • Having sex in an exotic location. • Being made by a man to have sex against one’s will. • Having sex in public while being watched by others. • Taking part in group sex. • [...]

Getting to know every inch of your lover’s body is among the most pleasurable shared experiences, and it is worth taking the time and trouble to set the scene properly. You should alternate between being the passive or pleasure-giving partner. Choose a time when you won’t be interrupted, and a place that is warm and [...]

• In matters of love, go for it; don’t dissemble and deceive. Nothing works as well as going full tilt after someone you want, and to keep on working at it once you are together. Going after someone means giving yourself. • Take some care over your appearance; clean, well-cut, sweet-smelling, freely moving hair and [...]

Physical response How long orgasmic contractions last, their level of intensity and the space between them, varies from woman to woman and from one orgasm to another. Some women experience a high peak of pleasure that fades away rapidly, while others feel orgasm as a more widespread, warm, internal sensation; some arrive at a peak, [...]