HOW TO BECOME A BETTER LOVER – MYTH 2
Another myth is that unless a man has sexual intercourse during an encounter, the experience is inadequate and the man a sexual failure. This myth echoes the complaint of women that all men think about is ‘getting it in and having an orgasm’, and that mutual pleasuring is a useful means of achieving that goal, but of little value in itself. Men who accept this myth become ‘performance oriented’ and may diminish the pleasure they and their partner can get from exploring, touching, and caressing each other’s body. The myth also puts great psychological pressure on the woman. If she believes that to make a man feel sexually successful she has to have an orgasm simultaneously with his orgasm, she -may feel that she is a sexual failure when she doesn’t. As I have said, fewer than half of women have orgasms during penile thrusting. This is not to say that sexual intercourse is not enjoyable for them: it is, of course, but it is not the only way, or at times the best, or most appropriate way of enjoying sex.
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