Getting to know every inch of your lover’s body is among the most pleasurable shared experiences, and it is worth taking the time and trouble to set the scene properly. You should alternate between being the passive or pleasure-giving partner. Choose a time when you won’t be interrupted, and a place that is warm and private. Soft lighting and background music also can contribute. You can use a bed that isn’t too soft, or the floor with sufficient cushions.

Both partners should adopt comfortable positions and should be undressed to get the maximum benefit. The person giving the massage should make certain his or her hands are warm and preferably oiled. If you are the pleasure-giving partner, concentrate on what you are doing and how your partner is responding. If it is your turn to be on the receiving end, lie back and enjoy every minute.

Start with a gentle, exploratory massage, going over all parts of your partner’s body except the genitals and breasts, as this will make the process much more sensual and relaxed. You can, if you like of course, go on to touching the breasts and genitals, and this may prove so arousing that sexual intercourse or an orgasm cannot be avoided.

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