One of the unctions of romance is to enable one to become attached to all the intricate aspects of another’s personality. The sex impulse when inhibited, delayed or sublimated develops a force which is diffused over the whole mental life and creates bonds of affection for every part of the other person’s being. This love [...]
The side effects were minimal: One man became nauseous and two complained of dizziness. Reducing the dosage and then increasing it again slowly took care of the vertigo. If the results with human subjects turn out to be the same as with laboratory rats, yohimbine may prove to be beneficial for men with low sexual [...]
A new method to test for erection may sound unappealing. And that’s completely understandable. What man wants a shot in his penis? Well, rest assured that the needle used is very small—less than an inch long—and that the patients who’ve had the shot report that it causes only minor pain which goes away when the [...]
Every year, new drugs with greater ability to overcome disease are introduced. With their use, the way that physicians treat an ailment can change. This was the case with migraine headache, a condition that has been treated with beta-blockers, calcium channel blockers, and antidepressants. While certainly effective on migraine, these drugs are associated with ED. [...]
As far as the ability to get and maintain an erection is concerned, the location of the spinal cord injury is crucial. If the nerves which connect to the penis are injured in the place in the lower back where they leave the spinal cord, a man probably will not be able to get an [...]
Unrealistic expectations are another huge block to a fulfilling and enjoyable sexual relationship. Let’s return to our friend William. He expects himself to respond on demand despite what is going on in other areas of his life. (This reminds us of the movie hero who is able to sneak in some lovemaking in the midst [...]
Once a man has ejaculated his interest in sex, and possibly his partner, declines rapidly. His penis will shrink and his sex drive diminishes. For a period of time, depending mainly on his age and health, he can’t achieve another erection and so his interest in sex is reduced. For many men, the penis becomes [...]
• Making love with one’s partner. • Making love with a former lover or someone other than one’s partner. • Having sex in an exotic location. • Being made by a man to have sex against one’s will. • Having sex in public while being watched by others. • Taking part in group sex. • [...]
Getting to know every inch of your lover’s body is among the most pleasurable shared experiences, and it is worth taking the time and trouble to set the scene properly. You should alternate between being the passive or pleasure-giving partner. Choose a time when you won’t be interrupted, and a place that is warm and [...]
• In matters of love, go for it; don’t dissemble and deceive. Nothing works as well as going full tilt after someone you want, and to keep on working at it once you are together. Going after someone means giving yourself. • Take some care over your appearance; clean, well-cut, sweet-smelling, freely moving hair and [...]
